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In her book, An Emotional Dictionary, Susie Dent defines the word respair as 'fresh hope'. She goes on to say that respair is :
"a word that feels so necessary to modern times that its disappearance is quite perplexing. The word is, of course, the antithesis of 'despair'"
Clearly this word is a good match for the work of a therapist, but more than that, it seems fitting for an organisation that is similarly perplexed about how dance and the healing power of group movement has been lost somehow. And like dance, is it also a noun as well as a verb. So let's get respairing.
Respair Therapy C.I.C. began in 2023 with a simple belief: dance belongs to everybody, and every body. Like many of the people we work with, Respair does not fit neatly into one box. Our work exists on a spectrum, from the gloriously frivolous to the deeply serious.
At one end, we hire out silent disco equipment so that people can turn their living room, kitchen or garden into a dancefloor for the night. We create joyful events where people can put on a pair of headphones, choose their music and dance together without worrying about what they look like. Income from silent disco hire goes back into Respair, so a party in someone’s garden can help another person access psychological support.
At the other end is Dance Movement Psychotherapy, or DMP. This is not a dance class or an informal wellbeing activity. It is a recognised form of psychotherapy in which movement, the body and the relationship between client and therapist are central to the clinical work.
Between these two ends are projects such as Babe Club, our silent disco for parents, carers and babies; therapeutic movement in schools; and work with neurodivergent people, adults with learning disabilities and people living with dementia.
We do not pretend that all these activities are the same. A birthday disco and a psychotherapy session have very different purposes, boundaries and levels of clinical responsibility. What connects them is our belief that movement matters and that dance should be more accessible.
Dance can be joyful, silly, sociable and completely without purpose. It can also help someone regulate their nervous system, express something they cannot say, reconnect with their body or begin to make sense of a traumatic experience. Sometimes it is energetic and expansive. Sometimes it is a gesture, a rhythm, a breath, a moment of stillness or the choice not to move at all.
Our work is inclusive, trauma informed and anti oppressive. Whether we are helping somebody throw a brilliant party or supporting a person through specialist psychotherapy, we are creating more opportunities for people of different ages, backgrounds and abilities to experience movement, connection and psychological support.
Dance Movement Psychotherapy (DMP) is a well-recognised, but often misunderstood form of psychotherapy which uses a combination of movement and verbal conversation. Practitioners require a Masters's degree and professional registration with the Association of Dance Movement Psychotherapy UK (ADMP UK), which is an organisational member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). DMP is used by the NHS to treat adult and child populations, and DMP is recommended in the NICE guidelines as a treatment for psychosis. There are no barriers to taking part in a DMP session - it can be adapted to suit any client group and it can be done one-to-one or in a group. It is based on the understanding that the body and mind are interconnected and that movement can be used to promote emotional, cognitive, and physical health.
A DMP session can include:
talking about how emotions feel in our bodies
doing simple gestures to show how you feel e.g. shrugging your shoulders
gentle stretches or movement meditations
lying on the floor and listening to music
dancing or moving around the room
playing ball games
walking in nature
Debbie Sheringham (she/her) founded Respair Therapy in 2023. As a qualified Dance Movement Psychotherapist, Circle of Security Facilitator, and Mental Health Consultant, Debbie brings a wealth of experience to her practice. With a Masters in Dance Movement Psychotherapy from the University of Roehampton and membership with ADMP UK (a UKCP-affiliated organisation), she specialises in supporting neurodiverse individuals, people with profound multiple learning disabilities and people who are struggling with body-based mental health symptoms.
In addition to her therapeutic work, Debbie has over 20 years of experience as a BBC producer and has also worked for the NHS as a Mental Health Practitioner.
Debbie is committed to running Respair Therapy C.I.C. from an anti-oppressive standpoint, offering inclusive services to individuals across all races, abilities, genders, sexualities, and marginalised communities.
For more information, visit Debbie's LinkedIn profile.
In addition to our Founding Director, Respair Therapy C.I.C. is run by a board of Supporting Directors who offer their services as unpaid volunteers.
Tamara is an English teacher with over 14 years’ experience and a keen Babe Club participant.
She has a thirst for learning, enjoys trying new things and is committed to making a positive difference. Proactive and resourceful, she has a strong track record of turning ideas into action.
Denise is a dedicated Dance Movement Psychotherapist who trained at the University of Roehampton. Denise has devoted her career to helping individuals process their experiences through dance and movement.
In addition to her clinical work, Denise is actively involved in the Dance Movement Therapy community.
Catherine is a student recruitment and marketing professional with over 20 years of experience in higher education. Her career is marked by a steadfast commitment to collaborating with others to meet and exceed challenging targets.
An effective leader, Catherine excels in communication, interpersonal, and influencing skills.
Respair Therapy is a Community Interest Company (C.I.C.). C.I.C.s operate differently from charities in several ways. We generate income through contracts, trading, and grants, rather than relying solely on donations and fundraising. This allows us to offer continuous services and products to benefit our defined community, without time limitations.
While charities receive tax exemptions and can claim Gift Aid on donations, we are subject to corporation tax and don't receive the same benefits. However, we appreciate every donation given to Respair Therapy C.I.C. as it helps fund our community projects.
Overall, our business model allows us to offer continuous and affordable solutions, while generating income to fund our community projects.